Wedding anniversary gifts by year

This tool finds the traditional gift for every year of your marriage, from paper at one year to diamond at sixty. Enter your wedding date or just the year to see the traditional gift and some ideas to match.

Traditional gifts are a fun starting point, not a rule. Many couples now choose something more personal or practical. Think about what you both need, want or enjoy doing together. A small gift often means more than a big one.

• Choose something you can use every day.
• Pick a memory from that year to inspire it.
• Keep a note of your ideas for next time.

You do not need to follow the list exactly. The traditional theme is a helpful hint, not a requirement. If paper feels too simple for your first year, add a framed photo or a recipe book you made together.

Consider your life now. Do you have room for a new item? Would you rather spend time together? A weekend away, a meal at home or a class you both want to try can be just as meaningful.

Set a budget that feels comfortable. Small treats add up over the years, so plan ahead rather than rushing at the last minute.

Mark your calendar so you never miss a date. Many couples find it easier to set a reminder a few weeks before the anniversary.

You can celebrate on the actual date or on a weekend that works for everyone. Travel, family and work schedules often decide the day.

• Write a note about what that year meant to you.
• Take a photo together to build a memory book.
• Plan something simple if you are short on time.
• Ask family for ideas if you are stuck.