What is the jaimala or varmala ceremony and when is it exchanged?

Short answer

The jaimala, also called varmala, is the ceremony where the bride and groom exchange flower garlands. It usually takes place at the start of the main ceremony, after the baraat arrives.

The jaimala is the moment when the bride and groom welcome each other by placing flower garlands around one another's necks. It symbolises mutual consent and respect, showing that both partners willingly accept each other as husband and wife. The exchange often happens at the beginning of the main ceremony, once the groom's baraat has arrived at the venue.

In many families, this ceremony includes playful teasing. The bride's side may try to stop the groom from reaching her, and he might need to offer small gifts or sweets to pass. This lighthearted moment brings laughter and joy to everyone watching. The garlands themselves are usually made of fresh flowers like roses, jasmine and marigolds.

For couples planning a UK Hindu wedding, the jaimala can be adapted to fit the venue and schedule. If you are having a civil ceremony separately for legal reasons, this ritual still holds deep meaning for your families and guests. It is a beautiful way to honour your heritage while celebrating your union in front of everyone you love.