What is the jaimala?

Short answer

The jaimala is the garland exchange ceremony where the bride and groom swap floral garlands to welcome each other. It usually happens at the start of the wedding and marks the couple's first public greeting as partners.

The jaimala, also called varmala or joota chupai in some families, is a joyful moment when the bride and groom each wear a flower garland and swap them. It symbolises mutual consent and respect, and in many families it is the first time the couple stands together in front of everyone.

The ceremony often takes place at the mandap or at the entrance of the venue. The couple may be lifted on chairs or held by their siblings while they reach each other, which adds a playful challenge. Some families include a game where the groom's friends try to steal his shoes before he can reach the bride.

Guests usually watch, clap and throw rice or petals. It is a good photo moment and a chance for everyone to celebrate the union. Timing and style vary by region and family tradition, so ask the couple or your family contact what to expect.

If you are planning to join a Hindu wedding in the UK alongside a civil ceremony, remember that the religious ceremony alone may not be legally binding unless it takes place in a registered building with an authorised person. Check with the register office or your place of worship for the current rules.