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A white woman should wear the same thoughtful, festive outfit as any other guest, choosing colours that suit the ceremony rather than her skin tone. The key is to respect the occasion and avoid colours reserved for the bride.
What you wear depends on the ceremony, the venue and the couple's wishes, not on your skin colour. Choose an outfit that is smart, modest and comfortable for the rituals you will take part in. Long dresses, skirts with tops, or a suit are all suitable for most Indian weddings.
Avoid white, since the bride often wears it, and avoid black if you can. Jewel tones, florals and rich colours are wonderful choices. If you want to embrace the style of the day, you could wear a salwar kameez, a lehenga or a sari. These are beautiful and appropriate, and many guests enjoy wearing them. You do not need to own one, though, and a well-chosen Western outfit is perfectly fine.
Consider the venue and season. Outdoor ceremonies may need comfortable shoes, and some rituals involve sitting on the floor. A shawl or dupatta can be useful for temple visits or cooler evenings. If you are unsure, ask the couple or a family member for advice on dress code and any customs to observe.
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