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Guests should generally avoid wearing white, as it is traditionally the colour worn by the bride in many Indian ceremonies. You should also avoid wearing the bride's exact outfit or colour if you know what it is.
Colour choices at an Indian wedding carry meaning, and it is kind to respect them. White is the safest colour to avoid because the bride often wears white or ivory at certain ceremonies. Wearing it could be seen as trying to upstage her.
Black is also sometimes avoided, as it can be associated with mourning rather than celebration. If you are unsure, choose bright or jewel tones instead. Red, gold, emerald, royal blue and deep purple are all popular and festive choices that fit the occasion well.
If you are attending a mehndi or sangeet, you can wear something more casual and fun. For the main ceremony, aim for something smart and respectful. A long dress, a skirt and top, or a suit all work. If you are unsure about a specific colour, ask the couple or a member of the family. They will usually be happy to guide you so you feel comfortable and appropriate.
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