What is a Chinese wedding banquet and how is it structured?

The banquet is the heart of the celebration for many Chinese families. It is less about the ceremony itself and more about bringing everyone together for a feast. The couple, along with both sets of parents, typically greet guests at the entrance before being seated.

The meal follows a traditional order. It starts with cold dishes and tea, then moves to hot appetisers, fish, poultry, meat, vegetables and rice. Dessert and fruit come last. Each dish carries a meaning, such as prosperity or togetherness.

Throughout the evening, the couple makes rounds to each table to thank guests personally. Toasts are made by the parents and the couple. The event usually ends with the couple seeing guests off at the door. Timing and seating are carefully planned, so arrive on time and follow your seating card.