How do you write wedding vows using AI?

Short answer

You can use AI to draft your wedding vows, but the final words must come from you. Start by telling the AI what matters to you both, then edit everything so it sounds like your own voice.

AI can be a helpful starting point for writing vows, especially if you are stuck for words. Begin by giving the AI a few honest details about your relationship: how you met, what you admire about your partner, and the promises you actually want to make. Ask for a draft in a tone that feels right, whether that is warm, funny, or simple.

Then treat the draft as a skeleton, not the finished thing. Read it aloud. Change any phrase that does not sound like you. Swap in your own memories, your own jokes, and your own way of speaking. The registrar or celebrant will not check where the words came from, but your partner will know if they are not truly yours.

Remember that legal vows are set by law or by your place of worship, and you cannot change those. Your personal vows are extra. If you are unsure what is allowed, check with your registrar, celebrant or religious leader. For legal wording, check GOV.UK or ask your venue.