What should you write wedding vows on or in?

Short answer

Write your vows on a small card or in a slim notebook that fits in your pocket or hand. Avoid loose paper that can blow away or get crumpled.

The best option is a small card, about the size of a postcard, made of thick paper or cardstock. You can buy plain cards, or make your own. Some couples use a small notebook or a folded piece of card. The key is that it feels comfortable to hold and easy to read.

Avoid writing on your phone. Screens can go dark, and you may be tempted to scroll. Also avoid single sheets of flimsy paper, as they can tear or blow away if you are outdoors.

If you want something more personal, you could write your vows in a small keepsake book, and then read from it. Or you could have them printed by a print shop, but handwritten words often feel warmer.

Think about the weather. If you are marrying outdoors in the UK, a card that fits in your pocket is safer than a large sheet. You can also ask your partner or a member of the bridal party to hold a spare copy, just in case.

Remember, you do not have to memorise your vows. Reading them is completely fine. Just make sure the writing is clear and large enough for you to read easily, especially if you are nervous.