How do you write wedding vows as a groom?

Short answer

As a groom, write wedding vows that sound like you, not like a script. Start with your partner's name, say what they mean to you, and make a clear promise for your marriage.

Many grooms worry about sounding too emotional or too formal. The best approach is to write as you speak. Begin with a direct line, like "[Name], I promise to be your partner in everything." Then add a personal detail, such as "I love how you make me feel brave." End with a commitment, for example "I will listen, laugh with you, and build our home together." Keep it to three or four sentences. You can mention a shared hobby or a small memory, but do not turn it into a story. If you are not used to writing feelings, try a simple structure: I love you because, I promise to, and I look forward to. Avoid jokes that might fall flat on the day. Check with your officiant if you want to include any religious language, as rules vary. For a civil ceremony in England and Wales, your registrar will tell you what is allowed. Remember, your vows are personal, not a legal requirement, so you have freedom to make them yours.