How do you write wedding vows to your wife?

Start by reflecting on what she brings to your life. Is it her kindness, her strength, her ability to make you laugh? Then think about what you want to promise her. Vows are not about perfection, they are about commitment. So promise to show up, to be honest, to grow with her.

Use her name and speak directly to her. Avoid clichés like "my other half" or "my everything". Instead, say what she means to you in your own words. For example, "I promise to always save you the last slice of cake" or "I promise to hold your hand through every challenge".

Keep your vows to about 100 to 150 words. Begin with a short statement about your love. Then make three or four clear promises. End with a forward-looking line, such as "I look forward to every ordinary day with you". Practise reading them so they flow.

Remember, the legal part of the ceremony is separate. In England and Wales, civil ceremonies cannot include religious content. In Scotland and Northern Ireland, check with your celebrant. If you want religious vows, ask your place of worship for guidance, as wording can vary.