Can anyone attend a church wedding?

Short answer

Not always. Church weddings are usually open to guests, but the minister decides who may attend. Some churches limit numbers or require an invitation. If you are a guest, check with the couple or the church office first.

In most Church of England, Church in Wales, Church of Scotland and Catholic churches, a wedding is a public service and anyone may attend unless the minister or church council has set a limit. However, many churches now hold weddings by invitation only, especially if space is limited or the couple has chosen a small ceremony. The legal rules can vary between denominations and individual churches, so the minister has the final say. If you are a guest and you have not received a formal invitation, it is polite to ask the couple or the church office whether you may come. Some churches also ask that guests arrive early and sit quietly, and they may close the doors once the ceremony begins. For a wedding in a church that is not registered for marriages, the ceremony may be a blessing rather than a legal wedding, and the rules about attendance may differ. If you are unsure, check with the place of worship directly. The couple's wishes matter too, so respect their guest list. If the church is very small, there may be a limit on standing room. Always confirm before travelling a long distance.