Can anyone walk into a church wedding?

A church wedding is a private ceremony for the couple and their chosen guests. You cannot just turn up and take a seat. The couple will send out invitations to the people they want there, and seating is usually arranged in advance.

If you have not received an invitation, do not arrive on the day. Churches often have limited space, and the couple may have a specific seating plan. It is also a personal and sacred moment for them, so respecting their wishes matters.

If you think you should have been invited but were not, do not confront the couple. Instead, give it time and, if you feel it is right, reach out to them separately after the wedding.

• If you are a guest, wait for your invitation and follow any instructions about arrival time and dress.
• If you are unsure whether you are invited, ask the couple directly rather than showing up.
• If you are a member of the congregation, you still need an invitation unless the couple says otherwise.