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The order is decided by you and your church, but the couple usually walks first, followed by the bridal party, parents and anyone else you wish to include. You can tailor it to fit your family and faith.
There is no single rule for who walks down the aisle in a church wedding. The Church of England and Church in Wales often follow a traditional order, but many parishes allow you to adapt it. Talk to your priest or vicar early, because some churches have specific expectations about who leads the procession.
In a common arrangement, the officiant and any clergy enter first. Then the groom and best man may already be at the front, or they process together. Next come the bridesmaids and page boys, often in pairs, with the flower girl scattering petals. The mother of the bride is usually seated just before the bride enters, sometimes with a close family member. Finally, the bride walks down with whoever she chooses, such as her father, both parents, or another important person.
You are not limited to these roles. Many couples include grandparents, siblings, step-parents, or close friends. Some choose to walk alone, and others ask two people to escort them. If you have a blended family or a non-traditional household, tell your church and your wedding party so everyone knows their part.
For any legal requirements, such as banns or a licence, check with your place of worship and GOV.UK.
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