Who walks mum down the aisle?

The person who walks your mum down the aisle is entirely your choice. In many UK weddings, it is a son, a brother, a stepfather, or a close family friend. Some mums prefer to walk with their own partner, while others walk alone and enjoy the moment. You might also ask an usher to escort her, which is a simple and kind option if she is happy with that.

Think about what your mum would like. Some parents feel honoured to be escorted, while others find it awkward. Talk to her directly and let her decide. If she wants to walk with your other parent, that can be a lovely way to show they are still a team. If she is walking with a partner, that is fine too.

There are no legal rules about the aisle. The only legal requirement is that the ceremony takes place in a registered building or approved venue, with the correct notices given. For religious venues, the minister or celebrant may have their own customs, so it is worth checking with them. The main thing is that everyone feels comfortable and included.