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Who typically walks down the aisle first during a wedding ceremony?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For parents

Short answer

Typically, the ushers or groomsmen walk down the aisle first, followed by the bridesmaids, then the bride. But this is just a custom. You can choose any order that works for you, and many couples now walk together or have parents walk first.

The usual order in a traditional UK wedding is that the ushers or groomsmen enter first, often from the sides or down the aisle, then the bridesmaids, sometimes with page boys or flower girls, and finally the bride. The bride is usually last because she is the focus of the entrance, and she often walks with her father or another close person. However, this is not a rule. It is a tradition that many couples adapt. For example, you might have the groom and his parents walk down first, then the bridesmaids, and then the bride with both parents. Or you might have both partners walk down together from opposite ends and meet in the middle. In a civil ceremony, the registrar will tell you the practical order, but they will not dictate who walks first. In a religious ceremony, the officiant may have a suggested order, but you can usually adapt it. The key is to think about who you want to honour and what feels natural. If you have a blended family, you might want to include step-parents or children in the procession. There is no legal requirement for a specific order, so you are free to create a procession that feels right for you.

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