How can I start saving money for a wedding?

Short answer

Start by setting a realistic total budget and opening a separate savings account just for the wedding. Then work out how much you can save each month and automate that transfer, so the money builds up without you having to think about it.

Begin by talking honestly with your partner about what matters most to you both. List your priorities, such as the venue, food, or photography, and decide where you are happy to spend less. This helps you avoid wasting money on things you do not really care about.

Next, open a dedicated savings account and give it a name like "our wedding". This keeps wedding money separate from everyday spending, so you are less tempted to dip into it. Work out a monthly amount you can afford, even if it is small, and set up a standing order to move it on payday. Treat it like any other bill.

Look at your regular outgoings for easy wins. Cancel subscriptions you rarely use, cook at home more often, or switch to a cheaper mobile plan. Put the difference straight into your wedding account. You can also sell items you no longer need, or take on extra shifts if that is possible.

Remember that the legal side of a wedding in the UK is simple and can be low cost. A register office ceremony with two witnesses is all you need for a legal marriage. You can add a bigger party later if you wish. Check GOV.UK for current rules on giving notice and booking a venue, as these can vary across England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland.