What not to say when proposing?

The proposal is a moment your partner will remember, so the words matter more than the ring. Do not start with a joke or a nervous ramble, and never say anything that sounds like a complaint, such as "it took you long enough" or "I suppose it's time". Avoid making it conditional, like "if you say yes, we'll move abroad", and do not ask in a way that pressures them in front of a crowd. Also skip clichés that sound rehearsed, like "you complete me", unless they truly fit your relationship. Instead, speak plainly. Say why you love them, what life with them means to you, and ask the question clearly. If you are nervous, say that. It is honest and endearing. Do not mention money, the ring's cost, or any family expectations. And never propose as a way to fix a relationship problem. If you are not sure they will say yes, talk about marriage before you propose. A proposal should be a joyful question, not a test or a surprise negotiation.