Do and don'ts of proposing?

A good proposal starts with a conversation. You should both know that marriage is on the cards before you get down on one knee. That is not unromantic, it is respectful. It avoids putting pressure on someone who is not ready.

Do choose a setting that means something to you both. It could be a favourite walk, your home, or a place tied to your story. You do not need a grand gesture. A quiet, personal moment often feels more genuine.

Do think about the ring. If you are unsure of their taste, you could propose with a placeholder or choose a ring together afterwards. That is perfectly acceptable and often more practical.

Don't propose in front of a crowd unless you are certain your partner would love that. Public proposals can be wonderful for some, but deeply uncomfortable for others. Know your partner.

Don't film the proposal without asking. Some people love it, others feel it turns a private moment into a performance. If you want to capture it, set up a discreet camera but be ready to turn it off.

Don't propose on a holiday or birthday unless you are sure. Some people love the timing, others feel it takes away from the occasion. Ask yourself what your partner would prefer.

Finally, do have a plan for the answer. If they say yes, celebrate. If they need time, respect that and talk openly.