When should you send wedding invitations for an adults only wedding?

For an adults only wedding, send invitations 8 to 10 weeks before the date. This is slightly earlier than the standard 6 to 8 weeks, because guests with children need time to arrange babysitters or family care. It is also important to be clear on the invitation that the wedding is adults only, so there is no awkwardness later. You can write something like "We love your children, but this is an adults only celebration" or simply address the invitation to the adults by name. If you are close to guests with children, a quick phone call or a note on your wedding website can help soften the message. Some couples choose to send a save the date 4 to 6 months ahead, especially if guests need to book childcare or travel. Remember that the legal notice period for marriage in England and Wales is 28 days, and in Scotland 29 days, so your own planning must allow for that. For guests, 8 to 10 weeks is usually enough to arrange a babysitter, book time off, and plan their evening. If you have guests with very young children, you might want to send their invitations a little earlier, or offer a list of local babysitters as a helpful touch.