When should you send wedding invitations for a Jewish wedding?

For a Jewish wedding, aim to send invitations 2 to 3 months before the date. This is a common courtesy because many guests may need to travel, arrange time off work, or organise childcare. If your wedding falls near a major Jewish holiday, or if many guests are coming from abroad, send them 4 months ahead so they can book flights and accommodation comfortably.

Your invitation should clearly state the date and time of both the ceremony and the reception, and mention any separate events like a pre-wedding dinner or a post-wedding brunch. If you are holding the ceremony in a synagogue, check with them whether there are any specific rules about who may attend or what guests should wear. Some couples send a save-the-date card earlier, especially for a summer wedding, but the formal invitation itself follows the same timing as above.

Remember that some guests may need to know about dietary requirements, so include a response card or a way for guests to note allergies or kosher preferences. If you are unsure about any religious customs around timing or wording, speak to your rabbi or the synagogue office. They can guide you, and you can also check GOV.UK for any legal requirements around marriage notices.