How do you address wedding invitations to divorced parents?

For divorced parents who live separately, the kindest and clearest approach is to send each parent their own invitation. Use their own name and their own address. For example, Mrs Jane Smith at her address, and Mr John Smith at his address. This means each can RSVP separately and bring their own guest if allowed. If they live together, you can put both names on one envelope, but use their individual titles and surnames, such as Ms Jane Smith and Mr John Smith. Avoid using 'Mr and Mrs John Smith' if they are divorced, as that implies they are still married. If one parent has remarried, use their new title and surname if they have changed it. If you are inviting a parent with a new partner, include the partner's name on the same envelope. For the inner envelope, you can write just their first names if you are close. The main rule is to treat each parent as an individual guest. This is especially important if there is any tension. Sending separate invitations also helps with seating plans and dietary requirements. If you are unsure about addresses or titles, ask a sibling or a close friend of the family. It is better to ask than to guess and cause upset.