Short answer
Yes, the parents usually sit together at a shared parents' table, but there is no rule and you can arrange it however feels right for your family.
Traditionally the bride's and groom's parents share a table with any grandparents, godparents or siblings who are not in the wedding party. This keeps the family close and makes introductions easy. It also gives parents a chance to relax together while the couple mingles.
If your family is blended or some parents are divorced, you may prefer separate tables. Some couples seat each set of parents with their own side of the family. Others place parents at the top table with the bridal party. The key is to discuss expectations early so no one feels left out.
Let your parents know where they will sit well in advance. If a parent has mobility needs or prefers a quieter spot, choose a table away from the speakers. A small note or a call can ease any worries about where they belong.
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