Does the mother of the groom sit at the top table?

In most UK weddings, the mother of the groom is welcomed to the top table as a sign of respect and family unity. Her exact seat depends on your family shape and how you want the table to flow. If you are a couple with two mothers, you might place each mother beside their own child. If one parent has passed away or is absent, the seat can be left empty or given to another close relative.

Some couples prefer a more relaxed arrangement and seat parents at a separate family table instead. This is perfectly acceptable and often easier for conversation. There is no legal or religious rule about top table seating, so follow what feels right for your day. If your ceremony has specific traditions, check with your registrar or place of worship, as customs can vary.

The key is to discuss this with both families beforehand so everyone feels included and nothing is assumed.