Which parent is seated first at a wedding?

In a traditional ceremony the ushers or a designated person guide the groom's parents into their seats first. The bride's mother is then seated last before the wedding party begins to walk down the aisle. This signals that the ceremony is about to start.

Many couples now seat both sets of parents together or in whichever order suits their family. If one parent has difficulty walking, seat them first regardless of tradition. You can also ask a trusted friend or member of the wedding party to help manage this.

If your ceremony is held in a place of worship, the seating may follow the customs of that faith. Some religious buildings have reserved pews or separate seating for families. Check with your officiant or venue about any specific arrangements. There is no legal requirement for a particular order, so choose what feels calm and clear for everyone.