Why are my parents divorced?

Short answer

Your parents divorced because their marriage ended, and that is their story, not yours to fix. It is normal to feel confused, and you do not need to take sides.

Divorce happens when two adults decide they can no longer live as partners. It is rarely about one person being wrong, and it is almost never about their children. You may have grown up hearing blame, or you may have seen silence instead. Neither version is your fault, and you do not have to carry it at a wedding.

At a seated wedding, the practical side can feel heavy. You might wonder whether your parents should sit together, or whether you should sit near one of them. There is no right answer that pleases everyone, but there are good ways to handle it. Talk to your parents early and ask what they would prefer. Some couples place divorced parents at separate tables with supportive guests nearby. Others seat them at the same table but not next to each other. A few families choose separate wedding days, like a ceremony and a reception, so everyone can be comfortable.

What matters most is that you feel calm on the day. Your guests will follow your lead. If you are kind and clear, everyone else will be too. If things feel too much, ask a trusted friend or member of the bridal party to help with seating on the day.