How can we collect photos from guests when the couple has divorced parents?

When parents are divorced, the main concern is usually seating and making sure both sides feel comfortable. For photo collection, the simplest approach is to have one shared album for everyone. Do not create separate albums for each side of the family, as that can create a sense of division. Instead, use a single link or QR code on your wedding website and on signs around the venue.

You might want to ask a trusted friend or a member of the bridal party to gently encourage both families to upload photos. You can also place the QR code on both the mother's and father's side of the room, if you are having separate tables. Some couples choose to have a neutral table plan with no "bride's side" or "groom's side", which helps everyone feel welcome.

If you are worried about awkwardness, you could have a small note on the sign that says "Please upload photos of the couple and their guests" rather than naming family groups. After the wedding, you can sort through the photos and choose the best ones to print or share. You do not need to mention the divorce at all; just make the process open and friendly.

If one parent is not attending, you can still collect photos from the other side. The important thing is to keep the album private and share the link only with guests, so you control who sees it.