Who should eat first at a wedding?

Traditionally, the bride and groom, along with the wedding party and parents, are served first. This is because they are the hosts and have been busy with photos and greeting guests. However, many couples now prefer to have all tables served at the same time, or to serve elderly guests and children first. The practical rule is to make sure no one is left waiting too long. If you have a plated service, the kitchen usually works through tables in a set order. You can ask your caterer to serve the top table first, then the rest. But if you are having a buffet, it is often better to let guests with mobility issues or young children go first, then invite everyone else table by table. Some couples choose to eat before guests so they can then mingle during the meal, but this is less common. The most important thing is to be kind and practical. If you have guests with dietary needs, make sure their meals are clearly marked and served correctly. Your venue will have a system, so trust their experience. You can also mention any special requests in advance.