How do you handle a plus-one who is a same-sex partner?

Invite your guest's partner by name on the envelope, just as you would for a different-sex partner. Do not assume the gender of the relationship. If you are unsure, ask your guest politely before sending the invitation. This avoids awkwardness later and shows you respect their relationship.

On the day, seat them wherever fits your plan. Do not place them at a table because of their gender or because they are a couple. Your seating chart should focus on who knows whom and on practical needs. If a guest is unsure whether their partner is welcome, tell them clearly that they are.

Some religious venues or family traditions may feel uncomfortable, but your wedding is your choice. If you are worried about how a venue will react, check with them early. For anything legal or religious, rules can vary, so check GOV.UK or ask your register office or place of worship.