How do you plan a hen do from scratch?

Short answer

Start by asking the hen what she wants, then set a date, a budget and a rough location. Gather a small group of organisers to share the work. Book accommodation and any activities early, and confirm everyone's place with a deposit before you pay for anything.

Planning a hen do from scratch is easier if you break it into steps. First, talk to the hen. Does she want a wild night out, a relaxing spa day, a countryside walk or a city break? Does she want a big group or a small one? Does she have any dates that do not work? Her answers shape everything.

Next, agree a date and a budget with the group. Use a group chat or a simple poll to find a date that suits most people. Be clear that not everyone may be able to come, and that is fine. Then choose a location that fits the budget and the hen's style. A city with good transport links is easy for people travelling from different places. A rented cottage works well for a quieter weekend.

Divide the tasks. One person can handle accommodation, another can book activities, and another can manage the guest list and payments. Ask for deposits from everyone as soon as they confirm. This protects you if someone drops out. Plan a loose itinerary with free time built in. Do not overschedule. The best moments often happen over dinner or a walk.

Finally, keep everyone informed. Send a simple schedule a week before, with addresses, times and what to bring. On the day, stay flexible. If the hen wants to change plans, go with it.