Who should organize a hen party?

There is no fixed rule about who must plan the hen party. The maid of honour usually takes charge because she is closest to the bride, but this is a role that can be shared or passed to someone else. Some brides prefer their mother, sister or best friend to organise instead. What matters most is that the person in charge is organised, kind and good at listening.

If you are asked to plan one, start by talking to the bride about her ideas and budget. Ask about her guest list and whether she wants a big event or something small. You can split tasks among the bridal party so no one feels overwhelmed. Someone can handle the venue, another can manage games and food, and a third can deal with invitations and money.

Always check with the bride before booking anything or spending money. If the group cannot agree on a plan, suggest a few options and let the bride choose. The hen party should be a celebration of her, not a source of stress. If you are unsure about costs or arrangements, talk openly with the group early so everyone knows what to expect.