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Good manners start with being kind, punctual and thoughtful to others. Here are ten simple habits you can practise at home before your wedding day.
Manners are about making other people feel comfortable and respected. You do not need expensive training to build them. Start with the basics at the family table and repeat them until they feel natural.
- Be on time for everything, including the ceremony and the reception.
- Say please and thank you to everyone, from the caterers to the DJ.
- Put your phone away during speeches and the first dance.
- Chew with your mouth closed and pass food to the left.
- Offer your seat to older guests or those who are pregnant.
- Keep your voice down in quiet spaces like the church or chapel.
- Dress neatly and follow any dress code on the invitation.
- Send a thank-you note within a few weeks after the wedding.
- Be gentle with children and patient with anyone who is tired.
- Respect the couple's wishes about gifts and the guest list.
These habits show that you care about the day and the people on it. They also help you enjoy the celebration without causing stress for anyone.
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