What is the role of the best man and bridesmaids in a Sikh wedding?

Short answer

Best man and bridesmaids are not a traditional part of Sikh weddings, but couples often add them for practical help. Their role is whatever the couple asks them to do.

In Sikh tradition, the focus is on the Anand Karaj ceremony and the community rather than a wedding party. There is no fixed role for a best man or bridesmaids, and many Sikh couples do not have them at all.

If you do include them, think of them as helpers. They can manage the rings, keep an eye on gifts, and make sure everyone knows where to be. They might also help the bridal party get ready, coordinate with musicians or the venue, and collect cards or money boxes after the ceremony.

Some couples ask a best man to give a short speech, though this is more common in civil or Christian ceremonies. If you want speeches, decide early who will speak and how long they should be. Bridesmaids can help with the rumala sahib, the cloth covering the Guru Granth Sahib, if the family asks. Always check with the gurdwara first, as rules about what happens in the hall can vary.

Whichever roles you choose, the most important thing is that everyone supports the couple and respects the service.