What is the role of the palla during the Anand Karaj and who holds it?

During the Anand Karaj, the couple performs four circumambulations, known as laavaan, around the Guru Granth Sahib, the Sikh holy scripture. As they walk, the groom's father, brother or another respected male relative holds the palla, a decorative scarf, over the groom's shoulder. This gesture represents guidance, protection and the family's blessing as the couple begins their life together. The palla is passed between the four rounds, sometimes held by different relatives, but it always stays with the groom's side. It is a sign of humility and of walking forward with support.

The bride does not hold a palla. Instead, she walks beside her partner, focused on the hymns and vows. If a family member is unable to attend, another trusted relative can take the role. Ask the family in advance who will hold it so nothing is left to chance on the day.

Tip: Confirm with the family which relative will hold the palla before the ceremony so the route is clear.