What is the role of the bride's father or family in a Sikh wedding ceremony?

Short answer

The bride's father and family lead the kanyadaan, presenting her to the groom and the Guru Granth Sahib as a gift. Their role is to bless the union and welcome the groom into the family.

In a Sikh wedding, the bride's family plays a central and honouring role throughout the Anand Karaj. The father, often accompanied by other close male relatives, formally gives the bride away. This is not a transfer of ownership but a heartfelt blessing and a request that the groom care for her with love and respect.

The family also prepares for the ceremony by welcoming the groom's party with warmth. They may join in the ragis' singing and help guide the couple through the four rounds around the holy scripture. It is common for the bride's parents to host or co-host the reception, known as the risti or shaadi, where both families celebrate together.

If you are part of the bride's family, your main duties involve support, hospitality and participation. You might help arrange the chola sahib, guide guests, and ensure the couple has what they need. Every family shapes the day differently, so talk with your priest or the gurdwara committee about local customs and what is expected of you.