What is the role of the granthi in a Sikh wedding and do they marry the couple?

Short answer

The granthi leads the Anand Karaj service, sings the hymns and guides the couple through the ceremony. They do not legally marry the couple; in the UK, a separate legal registration may be needed.

The granthi is a respected reader and guide in the gurdwara. During the Anand Karaj, they lead the hymns, explain the meaning of the laavan and conduct the ardas. They stand by the Guru Granth Sahib and help the couple understand the spiritual commitments they are making.

It is important to know that the granthi does not perform a legal marriage in the UK. The Anand Karaj is a sacred religious ceremony, but it is not recognised by UK law on its own. For your marriage to be legally binding, you usually need to complete a civil registration at a register office or an approved venue. Some gurdwaras can host the legal ceremony, but this depends on the building being registered for marriages.

Many Sikh couples choose to hold the Anand Karaj first, then complete the legal paperwork before or after. Others combine both on the same day if the gurdwara is approved. Speak to your granthi and your local register office to plan the right order for your day. This ensures your wedding is both spiritually meaningful and legally valid.

If you are unsure about the rules, check GOV.UK or ask the register office for the current requirements.