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What are door games and how do they fit into a Chinese tea ceremony?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For the bridal party · For grooms

Short answer

Door games are fun challenges the groom and his friends must complete before entering the bride's home. They are a playful start to the wedding day, not part of the formal tea ceremony.

Door games are a lively tradition where the groom and his friends face challenges before seeing the bride. Family and friends of the bride set up these games, and they are meant to be fun rather than difficult. Common challenges include answering questions about the bride, completing physical tasks, or finding hidden items.

These games usually happen before the tea ceremony, when the groom arrives to collect the bride. They build excitement and give everyone a chance to laugh together. You can keep the games light and inclusive so that all guests feel welcome.

If you prefer a quieter start to the day, you can skip the door games entirely. There is no right or wrong way to do this, and many couples choose to focus on the tea ceremony instead. Talk with your families about what feels comfortable for everyone involved.

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