Which side does the bride stand on at the altar?

The side you stand on is a matter of tradition rather than law. In many Christian churches and in traditional civil ceremonies, the bride stands on the left and the groom on the right when facing the altar or the officiant. This custom dates back to a time when the groom needed his right hand free to defend his bride.

However, this is not a rule you must follow. In a civil ceremony at a register office or approved venue, you can choose whichever side you prefer. Some couples simply stand side by side facing their guests. In a Jewish wedding the sides are different, as the question below explains.

If you are unsure, ask your registrar, minister or celebrant before the day. They will know the layout of the building and can tell you what works best for the space. You might also look at the order of service, which sometimes notes where each person stands. The most important thing is that you both feel comfortable and can see each other clearly during the vows.