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Who pays for the wedding dress and groom's outfit?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For brides · For grooms

Short answer

In the UK, the couple usually pays for their own outfits: the wedding dress and the groom's or partner's outfit. Some parents may offer to pay for the dress as a gift, but it is not expected. Decide together what you can afford.

There is no rule that says who must pay for the wedding dress or the groom's outfit. Most couples buy their own clothes, simply because they are personal and you will wear them only once. That said, it is common for a parent or grandparent to offer to pay for the dress, especially if they have saved up for it. If someone offers, accept if you want to, but be clear about the budget they have in mind. For the groom's outfit, the same applies. Some couples choose to buy or rent, and some prefer to buy a suit they can wear again. Remember to budget for alterations, shoes, accessories, and any cleaning or pressing before the day. If you are paying for your own outfit, set a limit and stick to it. Try on different styles and be open to second-hand or sample dresses, which can be a great option. For the groom, renting can be cheaper than buying, but buying might be better value if you will wear it again. Talk to each other about what you each want to spend, and be kind if one of you has a different idea. The most important thing is that you feel good on the day.

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