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There is no fixed rule. Usually the wedding party pays for their own attire, but many couples choose to cover it as a gift or as part of their budget. Agree this early to avoid awkwardness.
In the UK, etiquette is flexible. Traditionally, bridesmaids and ushers paid for their own outfits, and that still happens often. But many couples now pay for the bridal party's attire, especially if they have chosen a specific colour or style that the attendants would not wear again. Grooms and best men often pay for their own suits, but again, couples sometimes cover this. The kindest approach is to talk openly before anyone buys anything. Ask each person what they can afford and be ready to adjust your plans. If you want matching outfits, it is fair to offer to pay or contribute. If you are happy for people to wear what they own, then it is fine to let them cover the cost. Remember that being in the wedding party already involves time, travel and other costs, so being generous with attire is a thoughtful way to say thank you. There is no legal rule, so decide together and communicate clearly. Whatever you choose, make sure everyone knows before they shop.
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