Who pays for wedding rings in the UK?

The old custom is that the groom buys both wedding bands, just as he buys the engagement ring. That made sense when the groom was expected to be the main earner and the bride's family paid for the wedding. But these days, most couples see rings as a joint purchase.

You might each choose and pay for the other's ring, which feels romantic and fair. Or you might go shopping together and put both rings on one card, then split the bill. Some couples use a shared account for all wedding costs, including rings. Others ask a parent or grandparent to contribute as a gift.

There is no rule, and no one will ask who paid. What matters is that you both like the rings and that they fit your budget. Remember that rings are worn every day, so comfort and durability matter more than a big sparkle. And if you are on a tight budget, plain metal bands are classic and affordable. You can always upgrade for a milestone anniversary later.