Who pays for what at a wedding in the UK?

In the UK, there is no legal or set formula for who pays for what. The old tradition of the bride's family paying for everything has largely faded. Today, most couples plan a budget together and decide what they can afford, then ask family members if they would like to contribute. Some parents offer a set amount, others pay for a specific item like the catering, the bar, the flowers or the band. It is common for both sets of parents to help equally, or for one side to give more if they are able. The key is to talk openly and early. Write down who is offering what, and agree what happens if costs change. You can also ask for contributions instead of gifts, but keep it polite and optional. Remember that the legal basics, such as giving notice and the registrar's fee, are usually paid by the couple. For religious weddings, the church or venue may have its own fees, so check with them directly. The most important thing is that everyone feels comfortable and no one is pressured beyond their means. A wedding is about the two of you, not about matching a tradition that may not fit your family or budget.