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It is entirely up to you both. Many couples choose to keep the groom's suit a surprise, but it is not a tradition with any legal or formal rule. The important thing is that you coordinate colours and formality, so a shared plan is often more practical.
There is no rule that says the bride must not see the groom's suit. The tradition of not seeing each other before the ceremony usually applies to the bride's dress, and even that is a personal choice. For the groom's suit, many couples decide together, especially if they want to match colours or themes. If you do want a surprise, you can still coordinate by telling each other the colour palette or the level of formality without revealing the exact suit. For example, you might agree on navy and ivory, and then let the groom choose his own shade and style. Some couples enjoy the surprise of seeing each other's outfits for the first time at the ceremony, and that can be a lovely moment. But practical concerns matter too: if the groom is buying a suit, it is helpful to have a second opinion, and the bride often has a good eye for what will photograph well. Talk it through and decide what feels right for your relationship. The most important thing is that you both feel happy and confident on the day.
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