Who stays with the bride the night before?

The night before the wedding, many brides stay with their mum, sisters, or bridesmaids. This is a chance to relax, talk, and help each other with last-minute details. Some brides book a hotel room and have a quiet evening with a takeaway and an early night. Others prefer to stay with their partner, especially if they are already living together.

There is no legal or traditional requirement about who stays with you. The only thing that matters is that you get enough sleep and feel ready for the day. If you are staying with bridesmaids, agree on a plan for the evening, such as a light meal, no late drinking, and a set time for lights out.

If you are having a religious ceremony, some traditions suggest the couple should not see each other the night before, but that is not a legal rule. Many couples ignore it and stay together. Check with your venue or hotel about room arrangements, especially if you need a room for getting ready in the morning.

Remember that the night before can be exciting and stressful. Keep it simple. Have your phone charger, a glass of water, and a list of morning tasks. Ask your bridesmaids to handle any small emergencies so you can rest.