Is the bride responsible for bridesmaids hair and makeup?

In the past, the bride's family often paid for much of the wedding. Today, that is far less common. Many couples pay for most things themselves, with help from both families. The mother of the bride might contribute money, or she might help in other ways, like organising fittings, hosting a pre-wedding meal, or helping with planning.

If she does pay, it is often for things like the bride's dress, the reception, or the flowers. But there is no rule. Some mothers pay for the whole wedding, others just a small part, and others nothing at all. What matters is that you talk openly and agree together.

If your mother offers to pay, be specific about what she would like to cover. It can help to write a simple list of costs and decide who pays for each. This avoids confusion and keeps everyone comfortable. Remember, there is no legal obligation for anyone to pay. The most important thing is that everyone feels respected and included, whatever the budget.