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Traditionally the bridesmaids pay for their own hair and makeup, but the bride often covers it if she requires a specific look. Talk about this early so everyone knows the plan.
There is no legal rule about who pays, so this is entirely up to you and your bridal party. The old custom was for bridesmaids to cover their own costs, but modern couples often split the bill differently.
If you want a particular hairstyle or makeup artist, it is kinder to pay for it yourself. Bridesmaids are already spending money on their dress, shoes and travel. Asking them to pay extra for a service you have chosen can feel like pressure.
If you are happy for them to do their own hair and makeup, say so clearly. You might suggest a few trusted people or give them a budget to work within. Whatever you decide, write it down and confirm it in writing so there are no surprises on the day.
- Ask about budgets before you choose a stylist.
- Offer to pay if you require a specific look.
- Confirm who pays in your wedding website or a group message.
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