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You can return or exchange the dress, sell it second-hand, pass it to another bridesmaid, or donate it. Ask the bride about her preference first, as some want the dresses kept for future use.
Start by talking to the bride before doing anything. She may want to keep the dresses for a future wedding or for her own use. Some couples even plan to reuse them, so check before you list or donate anything.
If you cannot wear the dress again, there are several good options. You could sell it on a second-hand site where other bridesmaids can find it. Many people look for gently worn dresses at a lower price. Alternatively, you can donate it to a charity that helps people in need or to a group that supports new brides.
If you are worried about the cost of alterations, ask if the dress can be returned in its original condition. Keep all tags and packaging until you are sure. Some shops offer exchanges within a set time, so act quickly if you need a different size.
Whatever you choose, be kind and clear about your reasons. Your friend will appreciate you sorting it out rather than leaving it in a wardrobe.
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