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What is the best opening line for a wedding speech?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For brides · For grooms

Short answer

The best opening line is a simple, warm thank you to the guests for coming, followed by a genuine compliment about the couple or the day. It sets a relaxed tone and gives you a moment to settle before the main part of your speech.

Start by thanking everyone for being there, especially those who travelled far. Then say something true and positive about the couple, such as how happy they look or how lovely the ceremony was. Avoid jokes that could fall flat, inside references that exclude guests, or starting with a long story. A short, heartfelt line works better than a rehearsed gag. For example, "Thank you all for coming today to celebrate two people we love very much." Then pause, smile, and look at the couple. That pause helps you breathe and lets the room focus. If you are nervous, memorise just the first two sentences. Once those are out, the rest flows more naturally. Keep your opening under thirty seconds. The goal is to make everyone feel welcome, not to impress with wit. You can also thank the parents or the venue staff briefly, but save detailed thanks for later. Remember to speak slowly and clearly, and hold your glass steady. A warm opening sets the tone for the whole speech, so keep it kind, simple and true to you.

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