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A small wedding usually means fewer than 50 guests, with many couples choosing between 10 and 30. There is no official definition, so it is really about what feels intimate and manageable for you. Focus on the people you truly want beside you.
There is no legal or official number that makes a wedding small, so the size is yours to define. In practice, most couples and venues treat anything under 50 guests as small, and many elopements or micro weddings have between 10 and 30. The key is to think about who you cannot imagine missing, rather than trying to hit a target. A small wedding often means you can spend real time with every guest, choose a venue with character, and keep planning simpler. You might still have a ceremony, a meal, and dancing, just with fewer chairs. If you are thinking of a register office or approved venue, check their capacity and any rules about outdoor ceremonies. For a religious ceremony, speak to your place of worship about how many guests they can seat and whether they have any minimum or maximum expectations. Remember that legal requirements, such as giving notice and having two witnesses, stay the same whatever your guest count. The joy of a small wedding is that you can shape the day around your relationship, not around a crowd. You can also add a bigger party later if you want, but many couples find that a small ceremony followed by a relaxed meal feels complete on its own.
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