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How do I plan a DIY wedding?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For the bridal party

Short answer

Plan a DIY wedding by choosing a few meaningful projects and letting the rest go. Focus on what you can realistically make, buy or borrow, and ask friends and family to help on the day.

Start with a list of everything your wedding needs, from invitations to table settings. Then mark which items you will make yourself, which you will buy, and which you can borrow. Be honest about your time and skills. Choose two or three DIY projects that matter to you, like table names, favours, or a welcome board. For everything else, keep it simple. Paper goods, like order of service booklets and thank-you cards, are easy to print at home or at a local print shop. If you are making your own invitations, give yourself plenty of time for mistakes and reprints. For flowers, consider buying in bulk and arranging them yourself the day before, but have a backup plan. For food, a buffet or a bring-a-dish style can work, but check your venue's rules. For legalities, remember that a DIY wedding still needs the legal steps: notice periods, witnesses, and a registered venue or registrar. In England and Wales, a humanist ceremony on its own is not legally binding, so you may need a civil ceremony too. In Scotland and Northern Ireland, humanist weddings can be legal. Check with your venue and registrar. On the day, assign a friend or family member to set up and clear away, so you can enjoy yourself.

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