How do you word an RSVP card for acceptance only?

Short answer

For acceptance only, ask guests to reply only if they can come, so you hear from those who will attend and can plan numbers without chasing regrets.

An acceptance-only card keeps things simple for your guests and for you. You only need to hear from people who are coming, which saves everyone a stamp and a decision. The wording should be warm and clear, so nobody feels they have missed a step.

You could write something like: "We would love to know if you can join us. Please reply by [date] if you will be there." Or keep it even shorter: "Please respond only if you are able to attend." Add a line for the guest's name and the number of people attending, if you are allowing plus-ones.

Some couples prefer to say "Acceptance only" at the top of the card, with a simple tick box that says "Joyfully accepts". That makes the intention obvious. You can also add a small note: "No reply needed if you cannot make it, but we will miss you." This is kind and honest, and it takes the pressure off guests who have to decline.

Remember that some guests may still reply even if they cannot come, just to be polite. That is fine. The important thing is that you have a clear system for counting those who say yes. If you are using an online RSVP, you can set it to show only the acceptance option, which works in the same way.